Hi, I'm Julian.
Gay dating blogger, travel lover, wine enthusiast. I write the way I live – honest and without a filter.
Who I am
I'm 28 years old, based in Berlin, and I've spent the last few years writing about gay dating, sugar dating and life as a gay man navigating modern relationships. I'm a sugar baby myself, and I'm open about it, not because I have to be, but because I think it's time to talk about this kind of life without shame.
On Gay-Finder.net, I write about what I've actually experienced: first dates that went sideways, weekends away with a generous partner, dinners in cities I'd never have visited otherwise, but also the questions real guys are asking themselves. How do I communicate what I want? How do I find someone genuine? What's the etiquette when things get more serious?
How it all started
I stumbled into sugar dating through a friend while I was still finishing university. I was skeptical, curious, and then genuinely fascinated. Not by the idea of "using" someone, but by how openly people talked about needs, independence and mutual respect. My first real arrangement was with a businessman based in Munich. He taught me how to order properly at a two-Michelin-star restaurant, how to hold a conversation at a business dinner, and why confidence matters more than looks.
Those experiences shaped how I see dating today. I want to pass that on, because back then I would have loved to have someone tell me honestly how this world actually works.
What you'll find here
I write every post from my own perspective, with real experiences, real places and concrete advice. Not another generic "how to find the man of your dreams" guide, but content that actually helps, whether you're brand new to gay sugar dating or you've been in the game for a while.
- Honest insights into gay dating and sugar dating
- Tips on platforms, apps and where to actually meet people
- Travel and restaurant recommendations from real experience
- Advice on communication, confidence and setting boundaries
Let's stay in touch
I'd love to hear from you. If you have questions, want to suggest a topic, or just want to share your own story, reach out. You'll also find me on MyGaySugardaddy, the platform where I've met most of my own connections.